tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post8148621182559033663..comments2023-03-17T03:11:05.279-07:00Comments on Kimberly's Journey: Back down the rabbit hole...Kimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00253291617045071115noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-75827452182527313962010-12-16T21:08:21.870-07:002010-12-16T21:08:21.870-07:00Dear Dave,
Brian and Betsey have kept me informed....Dear Dave,<br />Brian and Betsey have kept me informed. I have and will forever keep you and your family in my prayers. Im very grateful that I have been able to get to know you,Kim, and your children. I have been so sad for Kim, you, and your kids. Last night, I dont recall any dreams but one... Kim was smiling like always. You and your family have given us a very valuable gift....the gift of being able to see such strength and love...in which we will always cherish as well as learn from and incorporate into our daily lives. Love Christa (Brian and Betsey's sister)Deevershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11012663898969707987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-26594852402893758752010-12-16T07:06:20.056-07:002010-12-16T07:06:20.056-07:00Dave,
I am so sorry hear about Kim’s passing. My ...Dave,<br />I am so sorry hear about Kim’s passing. My heart goes out to you and your family. I wish I had words, or a gesture that could be of some comfort to you. What you and your family have experienced is just incomprehensible. So deep, so sad and poignant. Yet your thoughts in your blog reveal how precious life is and how positive love is to us all. I hope that is something to reflect on for everyone who is touched by this loss. Something to help make sense of this senselessness. The world needs more light and kindness, not less, not now. Kim always brought that to the world around her when I knew her and apparently she never stopped. She will always have a special place in my heart. She taught me a lot about myself back when I needed that. It was a long time ago that you were both part of my life and I look back fondly on all those memories. Know that you are in my thoughts, and the thoughts & prayers of my family and so many others out there. I hope all that love and compassion, can help carry you through this trying time and help heal the wounds you have. Take care, be strong. If there is anything I can do please let me know.<br /><br />Peace<br />Mario PerrettUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05715526653986278898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-11085780813451118332010-12-15T23:39:19.227-07:002010-12-15T23:39:19.227-07:00Dear Dave & Kids,
From the time And...Dear Dave & Kids, <br /> From the time Andrea called me yesterday to let me know that Kim had left us I have been struggling to accept it as real. We all have. My mind is flooded with the memories that we have of getting together for birthdays and baseball and easter egg dying etc.. Although much time had passed since our last get together, the memories that Kim and your family leave behind are so full of joy and a constant reminder of just how special she and all of you are. Everytime we ran into each other we always said the same thing "we have to get together soon" I'm so sorry life kept us all so busy, but how fortunate we are for having gotten to know Kim and all of you, and getting to spend what time together that we did! From the moment we found out that Kim was sick the prayers and hope never faltered and even though the loss is so great at least we can take comfort in knowing that she is with God in heaven and that our memories are wonderful because of the extraordinary person that she was. May god bless you and grant you the strength and peace that you need in this difficult time. You continue to be in our hearts and in our prayers. We are so sorry for all of you. <br />With lots of love and hugs, Rachael,Mike,<br /> Sarah,Elizabeth,Luke,& GraceMike and Rachael Franzenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00216437380873646706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-46933386141913318902010-12-15T16:50:44.567-07:002010-12-15T16:50:44.567-07:00Dave,
Losing so much of my family in the last ten...Dave, <br />Losing so much of my family in the last ten years you would think I'm a pro at these emotions. I have been in tears for the last day and half. Kim was the most selfless person I have ever met. I'll never forget walking our first born babies down Paseo San Bruno. All the wonderful family dinners together. Every year at Christmas I take out four ornaments that Kim had given us over the years and by now the kids even say "this one is from the Conca's". We still have the white rose bush that she sent to Shawn after his Mom passed away. I feel so blessed to have known her. You are all so special to us. We love you and keep you in our prayers always! <br />Love, The Hoffman'sUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05902522144186443525noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-26041227026720098502010-12-15T10:51:48.132-07:002010-12-15T10:51:48.132-07:00Dear Dave,
It has been a little over 24 hours sinc...Dear Dave,<br />It has been a little over 24 hours since we learned of Kim's passing. Her journey, which you so eloquently shared, did not end the way we hoped, prayed or wanted. Kim is one of those extremely rare people that demonstrated genuine care for every person she encountered. Your family is extraordinary for its love, strength and faith despite challenge and hardship. Annette and I are eternally grateful that we had the privilege to know and love Kim, yet saddened that we didn't get the chance to get even closer to her. She made others around her better people - as do you, my friend.<br />Our love and prayers for Kim, you, Cody, Autumn and Tonio continue and we will honor her by keeping her spirit close to us. Your love and dedication to each other and your children is an inspiration to us all. May God bless and comfort you during this difficult time, and may He reassure you that your beloved Kim is now doing His work from Heaven.<br />Much love,<br />Annette, Alyssa & Kirk PerriniKirk @ LKP Counseling, Coaching, Consulting and Traininghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17369552876823220870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-51426837690240134312010-12-15T08:10:02.457-07:002010-12-15T08:10:02.457-07:00Dave and kids,
I was blessed to know Kim for ...Dave and kids,<br /><br /> I was blessed to know Kim for a little over a year. Working with her at RVMS was in my eyes, a gift from God. She was the sunshine that everyone needed and looked forward to seeing each and everyday..<br /><br /> On a lighter note, I wanted to share a silly, yet important memory of Kim with you all:<br /><br /> Of course, Zona 78 was her favorite restaurant. At RVMS, she always had her glass Zona 78 Glass (that looked like a beer glass) on her desk filled with iced tea. I would always walk by her desk and tease her about "drinking on the job" because it looked like beer. I am sure the joke got old, but each and every time I said it to her, she giggled that sweet giggle and smiled. I plan on visiting Zona78 over break and purchasing a cup and filling it with earth tone rocks, and displaying it on her desk at RVMS.<br /><br />Praying for you all...<br /><br />~Denelle RaschUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17747082652669530049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-54832030978048022252010-12-15T07:04:48.411-07:002010-12-15T07:04:48.411-07:00Dave~ I have been following Kimmy's journey s...Dave~ I have been following Kimmy's journey since it first began. Every morning, I would read your blog posts as I ate my breakfast. I would then think about you all of and on EVERY day...throughout the day! The two of you have inspired me. <br /> I am so very sorry for the loss of your Kimmy. It is very clear to me, and I'm sure to all, the deep love and commitment you have for your Kimmy. I know that she knew your love for her. I remember Kimmy telling me,YEARS ago, how much you loved her. She told me a story about you purchasing shoes for her as a surprise. I think that she said that you had them under her pillow waiting for her. She said that you had really good taste! :) <br />I would love to hear more stories about your wonderful life with Kimmy! Should you ever decide to use this blog to share your favorite memories of Kimmy, I will read them. I am sure that there are many! God bless you and your sweet and precicous children as you begin this new journey. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. You all hold a special place in my heart! <br />Dave~ I recently heard Beth Moore (Christian Author/Teacher) say, "God will only allow us to go through things that will glorify Him in the end." I want for you to know that I recognize that you have indeed given God much glory throughout this difficult process. He must love and cherish YOU so very much! God bless you guys! I know that you have LOTS of support, for which I am grateful, but...should you ever need anything at all, please don't hesitate to let me know. With much love, Cindy MotzCindy Motzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15796017007540787358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-67876328862957344372010-12-15T05:15:36.600-07:002010-12-15T05:15:36.600-07:00Dear Dave,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you....Dear Dave,<br /><br />Our thoughts and prayers are with you. They are with Cody and Autumn and Antonio, and of course, with Kim. May the stars shine brighter with the light she carries with her to heaven. Please know that we are thinking of you, and that if you need anything we are here.<br /><br />All Our Love,<br />Michael and Cassie AlegriaCassiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18438160179029924247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-16971582036407710222010-12-14T23:52:23.504-07:002010-12-14T23:52:23.504-07:00Dave, Cody, Autumn, and Tonio,
As I sit down to wr...Dave, Cody, Autumn, and Tonio,<br />As I sit down to write this I am still in shock. It feels like just yesterday we were all sitting in the bleachers at the track meet cheering on Cody and Baylee. I can still hear Kim saying "Come on Cody!!!" so eagerly as he passed the finished line. I can see the smile on her face and pride in her heart. We have been cheering Dave, for all of you, praying that Kim would find her way back to health. She was truly an amazing person! HE is lucky to have such an Angel come home. I am sure she will continue to cheer your family on with all her love from Heaven. Our hearts and prayers go with you all. <br />Love, Jaymee, Billy, Baylee, Devynn, Trynnity and Prestton FisherUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12551541572380634213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-33833629821640343172010-12-14T22:41:32.160-07:002010-12-14T22:41:32.160-07:00Dave and family,
We are so sorry for your loss, Ki...Dave and family,<br />We are so sorry for your loss, Kim will be missed by so many people. She was such a wonderful person and friend. She was always so happy and a joy to talk to. We will always keep her and all of you in our hearts and prayers. <br /><br />Love, David, Elaine, Alisha and Matthew PeruPeru Crewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07172866065684950903noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-48755785714197475722010-12-14T22:32:20.218-07:002010-12-14T22:32:20.218-07:00POST 2 OF 2 FROM EVA:
In 2008, Kim sent this story...POST 2 OF 2 FROM EVA:<br />In 2008, Kim sent this story to me that had been sent to her and she passed it along; it is reflective of the depth of her love and her passion for life, so I wanted to share it:<br /><br />Wish You Enough<br />“At an airport I overheard a father and daughter in their last moments together. They had announced her plane's departure and standing near the door, he said to his daughter, "I love you, I wish you enough".<br /> <br />She said, "Daddy, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Daddy." They kissed good-bye and she left. He walked over toward the window where I was seated.<br /> <br />Standing there I could see he wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on his privacy, but he welcomed me in by asking, "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?" "Yes, I have," I replied. Saying that brought back memories I had of expressing my love and appreciation for all my Dad had done for me. Recognizing that his days were limited, I took the time to tell him face to face how much he meant to me. So I knew what this man was experiencing. "Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?" I asked.<br /> <br />"I am old and she lives much too far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is, her next trip back will be for my funeral, " he said.<br /> <br />"When you were saying good-bye I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?" He began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone."<br /> <br />He paused for a moment and looking up as if trying to remember it in detail, he smiled even more.<br /> <br />"When we said 'I wish you enough,' we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with enough good things to sustain them," he continued and then turning toward me he shared the following as if he were reciting it from memory.<br /> <br />I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright. I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more. I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive. I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger. I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting. I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess. I wish you enough "Hello's" to get you through the final "Good-bye."<br /> <br />He then began to sob and walked away.<br /> <br />They say, "It takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to<br />appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget<br />them."<br /> <br />Send this phrase to the people you'll never forget and also remember to<br />send it to the person who sent it to you.<br /> <br />It's a short message to let them know that you'll never forget them.<br /> <br />If you don't send it to anyone, it means you're in a hurry and that<br />you've forgotten your friends. Take the time to live!!!<br /> <br />My friends and loved ones, I wish you ENOUGH!”<br /> <br />Kim, my kind and loving friend, you will never be forgotten! You have passed into glory with our Heavenly Father. Your legacy of love continues on. <br />Dave, Cody, Autumn, & Tonio,"I wish you enough!!"<br />Love, Eva<br /><br />Matthew 5:4 <br />Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.Evahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15573616305366388683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-3557197714735902082010-12-14T22:31:39.475-07:002010-12-14T22:31:39.475-07:00POST 1 OF 2 FROM EVA:
Dear Dave, Cody, Autumn, &a...POST 1 OF 2 FROM EVA:<br /><br />Dear Dave, Cody, Autumn, & Tonio,<br />My heart goes out to all of you in your time of sorrow. I will continually pray for God’s healing power and might to strengthen you and to comfort you in the days ahead. I,too, was praying for a miracle and was hopeful to see signs of improvement in Kim; I waited expectantly to hear from you that she was strong enough to start chemo. I don’t profess to understand God’s ways, but I do know that He is faithful. Isaiah 55:8 says “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways declares the LORD.” How true that is. It doesn’t make any sense to me why Kim had to leave all of you behind; it is so difficult to comprehend that, but I do know He loves us and comforts us in our afflictions. “I will turn their mourning into gladness; I will give them comfort and joy instead of sorrow.” Jeremiah 31:13b<br /><br />Kim was a bright ray of hope and a shining example of God’s love. The world was and still is brighter place because of her. Our hearts ache for her.Evahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15573616305366388683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-41665513035443273912010-12-14T21:56:23.750-07:002010-12-14T21:56:23.750-07:00Dear Conca Family,
I am so deeply saddened by Kim...Dear Conca Family, <br />I am so deeply saddened by Kim's passing. She was such an amazing, warm, genuine person. We are all blessed to have known her. I will keep you and the kids in my prayers daily. <br />Love, Anabelle PearsonAnabellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10520355028957332439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-76939572217383642432010-12-14T20:35:55.733-07:002010-12-14T20:35:55.733-07:00Dear Conca Family,
Words cannot express how very ...Dear Conca Family,<br /><br />Words cannot express how very sorry I am for the loss of your amazing wife, mother, and friend. Kim was an angel on this earth and everyone who knew her was blessed. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with your family during this difficult time.<br /><br />Love,<br />JenniferMrs. Lofgrenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00171302107510765639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-35433487850903465412010-12-14T19:01:17.249-07:002010-12-14T19:01:17.249-07:00Dearest Concas,
I am so incredibly sorry for your ...Dearest Concas,<br />I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Kim absolutely was a miracle in so many ways. She helped me so much throughout my difficult first year teaching and was always there for, me no matter what! She even brought me home-made soup when I was sick! Kim was and is a shining example of how we should live our lives, with passion, caring and lots of laughter. Her laugh was amazing and if I close my eyes, I can still hear it. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love always, Sarah StonerSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17356928604963098166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-68782118554448017112010-12-14T18:59:49.480-07:002010-12-14T18:59:49.480-07:00My heart goes out to you and your wonderful family...My heart goes out to you and your wonderful family. I taught your kids a few years ago at Cottonwood and I remember talking to Kim a few times. That's all it took to know what an amazing woman she was. I remember her always smiling, she was so beautiful. May God be with you 'till you meet again.<br />Samantha MackAdam and Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11492432506753165505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-22361397646058956322010-12-14T18:46:46.798-07:002010-12-14T18:46:46.798-07:00We are also saddened beyond comprehension by the n...We are also saddened beyond comprehension by the news of Kim's passing. Finding words to encourage is difficult, but remembering Kim's love and encouragement is what is sustaining us now. The blessings she brought to those around her will never be matched. She was truly one of kind. We will miss her infectious laugh, and beautiful smile. She will be in our hearts always. We are sending love and prayers to you all. You have been an amazing man through this journey, your courage and strength displayed in your writings. We are so appreciative that you took time each day to do this even while caring for Kim so lovingly each day. God bless you.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14150808276208601040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-86864141482121078412010-12-14T17:08:19.608-07:002010-12-14T17:08:19.608-07:00I have talked to so many people about Kim today an...I have talked to so many people about Kim today and shared stories...in every story everyone comments on that wonderful smile and laugh. Even my best friend's little girl remembered her "as the lady that gave me all the tattoos at the school carnival even though she was only supposed to give me two." She has touched so many lives...we can only wish to be half the person that Kim was...she was a rare one : )Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12880657688887162607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-10436474111967270782010-12-14T15:22:55.696-07:002010-12-14T15:22:55.696-07:00Dave, Cody, Autumn and Tonio,
I am deeply sorry fo...Dave, Cody, Autumn and Tonio,<br />I am deeply sorry for your loss of precious Kim. What a blessing we all feel for having had Kim in our lives. Please know that my continued prayers for strength go out to you and all of your family. <br />Take care,<br />CharlotteCharlotte Hoffnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10696028770627564926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-69801712106644138292010-12-14T15:03:07.060-07:002010-12-14T15:03:07.060-07:00Dave, Cody, Autumn, & Tonio,
I am deeply sorry...Dave, Cody, Autumn, & Tonio,<br />I am deeply sorry for your loss. Kimmy was like another mother to me. She is an amazing woman. My mom woke me up at 6:30 and told me. It shocked me so much and I'm still confused. You guys are an amazing, strong, & loving family.<br />Godbless,<br />Emma Corbelli ( Little C )Emma aka Rufushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17034716772765802653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-25942132627262628762010-12-14T14:55:42.452-07:002010-12-14T14:55:42.452-07:00Dave,
I am heartbroken at your loss and my prayer...Dave,<br /><br />I am heartbroken at your loss and my prayers and thoughts are with you and the children. Although I haven't seen Kim in years I remember that bright Arizona day when you guys moved to Tucson and immediately knew the two of you had something that most never get to have. A kinship that radiated from both of you. That has stuck with me for 16 plus years.<br /><br />Mike Smith1955 Strat-o-matic replayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00589212028904960931noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-83594925406383155722010-12-14T14:48:26.945-07:002010-12-14T14:48:26.945-07:00Dear Dave and kids, I can't even imagine what...Dear Dave and kids, I can't even imagine what you are going through, but the Lord will guide you through this and be with you always. Give a hug to the "bambini's" for us. You are truly a loving husband and father. Kim was blessed when she met you. God bless, Terri,Todd and MattTerrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14434881924646550910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-89390643365279416822010-12-14T14:36:57.280-07:002010-12-14T14:36:57.280-07:00Dave, Cody, Autumn & Tonio,
Like so many other...Dave, Cody, Autumn & Tonio,<br />Like so many others, I am at a loss for words. There are simply not enough kind words in the world to describe Kim. All that comes to mind is perfection. What an amazing woman. We are all so blessed to have known Kim and the wonderful family you all are. Your strength in your faith will guide in you in healing and the cherished memories will wrap you in comfort. God will be with you in your journey forward. We will pray for you. Bless your beautiful family!<br />Love,<br />Jen, Dan, Lala, Noah & EmmaJenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16622296353146490551noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-11983590158354415882010-12-14T12:32:32.817-07:002010-12-14T12:32:32.817-07:00Dave and Family,
I don't even know what to sa...Dave and Family,<br /><br />I don't even know what to say. I remember being told about the COnca family when I started my student teaching with Ami and how wonderful you all were. Ami made a point to introduce me to you and Kim and I knew instantly why she thought you guys were so wonderful. <br />I am blessed to have known Kim and I am amazed and humbled by your Faith and optimism. You are a true inspiration and I hope if and when tradegy happens to this magnitude in my life, that I handle it with half the Grace you and your family have.<br /><br />God bless you in these hard times,<br /><br />Love,<br />Eric and Nicole MikkelsonNicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16854899052864482365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3526308969178670264.post-2301297000444634002010-12-14T12:14:49.071-07:002010-12-14T12:14:49.071-07:00Dave, Cody, Autumn, and Tonio
I am so terribly sor...Dave, Cody, Autumn, and Tonio<br />I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Kim was such a wonderful wife and mother (and person in general) and I can't even imagine how upset you must be. May the Lord give you strength and help you through these times. She will be greatly missed!<br />Brandi and TravisBrandi Sutterleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06534013785422917232noreply@blogger.com